“Make space for your future,” is lovely quote from Danielle LaPorte. She posted it on Facebook several months ago. I fell in love.
In order
to make space for your wild and precious life, you need to do something
different today. If you want something new, you have to let go of
something old. You have to move through your fear.
Facebook
bombards us with beautiful memes. But it’s not enough to be inspired by
words. We have to take the inspiration to the next level. We have to
take action.
Knowledge isn’t enough to change anything. But knowledge with action brings results.
The
thoughts, words and actions you choose today are creating all of your
tomorrows. If you dislike how your life is unfolding, you can make space
for your future by making some impactful changes today.
What do you want your future to look like?
Dare. Risk. Act.
If you want a loving relationship, what action do you need to take to make space for it?
Do you
need to forgive or let go of someone who is currently in your life? Or
do you need to learn how to love yourself in order to really love
somebody else?
Do you want a new job or do you want to begin a new business?
What
action do you need to take to make space for it? Do you need to make a
plan or update your resume? Or do you need to make better use of your
free time?
If you want to lose weight, what action do you need to do to make space for a healthier you?
Do you
need to begin an exercise habit or cut out sugar? Do you need to drink
more water or include more vegetables in your diet?
Do you want financial freedom?
What
action do you need to take in order to make space for it? Do you need to
ask for a raise in order to earn more? Do you need to stop all
recreational spending? Or do you need to get rid of some stuff and
downsize?
You don’t need to do epic stuff in order to create an awesome future. You don’t have to travel around the world or create the next best thing.
You don’t have to build an online empire or construct five new schools. Those things are wonderful and work for some people.
But the
real magic lies in making small changes and creating new habits. That
alone will change your future from black and white to living color!
How to make space for your future, today:
People
Release
toxic family members and friends. You are worthy of love, time and
respect. You can love difficult people from a distance. You don’t need
to be in their physical presence.
When you
feel worthy, you’ll attract people who believe in your worth. Your
future will be filled with supportive and genuine people.
Addictions
It’s
easy to become an addict. We live in a culture that encourages us to
numb our emotions and pain. Too much of anything is a problem. Are you
addicted to gaming, porn, alcohol, drugs, fame, work or money? Now is
the best time to do something about it.
Get help the help that you need. Create space for more love, joy and success in your future.
Love
In order
to invite more love in your life, make space for it by becoming a more
loving person. Begin by increasing your self-love. Think and speak
lovingly to yourself and to others. Become kind and generous to yourself
and others.
Create
boundaries for yourself and others. Love is a daily practice. When you
mess up, simply begin again. A love-filled future is something to get
excited about.
Make a plan
The
process of writing things out makes it “real.” Write down your plan.
Where do you see yourself in 3 years, 5 years or 10 years? Write is all
down. Write down your successes and failures. Write down your lessons
and your blessings.
When you
feel lost, overwhelmed or like you want to give up, write. Write for
your sanity. Write for your wild and precious life!
Crack your comfort zone
Take
action. Without action, change can’t happen. You only need to take
penguin steps. If you need support or guidance hire a coach. Join a
support group. Small steps and gentle progress are the key to long term
change.
Take time today to decide how you want your future to be. Then choose the biggest problem area in your life and do something about it. It’s the problem you’re most familiar with.
The one that makes you feel crazy and unconnected. The one that steals your happiness and joy.
Your future can be anything you want it to be.
It doesn’t depend on the state of the world, the economy or what anyone
else does. It has to do with you and your choices. It has to do with
your willingness to act, dare and risk.
Invent your wild and precious future.
